What do you do for a living?
'Cosa' = KOH-za; 'nella' = NEL-la. Italians often say this quickly as one flowing phrase.
Ask after exchanging names and where you're from. It's one of the first five questions in most Italian casual introductions. Works in social settings but avoid in very formal contexts where 'Che lavoro fa?' is more appropriate.
'Nella vita' literally means 'in life' and is a natural Italian way of asking about someone's occupation or role. It is broader than just asking about a job — it includes students, parents, and other life roles. The informal 'fai' is used for 'tu'.
Che lavoro fai?
What work do you do?
More direct and work-focused — common among adults.
Che lavoro fa? (formal)
What work do you do?
Formal version using 'Lei'.
Studi o lavori?
Do you study or work?
Classic question for younger people where either answer is expected.
Italians often identify strongly with their profession. Answering with just a job title can feel abrupt — adding context like where or how long shows sociability and openness.